UU Women's Potluck Dinner - Friday, Jan. 25, 6:30-9:00 p.m.
Death Cafe: Eat Lunch & Talk About Death - Sunday, Feb. 3, 12:15-2:15 p.m.
Note: This is a SUUper Sunday with lunch available.
The subject of death is something many of us would like to have nothing to do with. Yet we are all mortal; we all die. We all have to deal with the deaths of people we love. Talking about death can be liberating, comforting, strengthening. And you know, talking about death won’t kill you!
What’s a Death Cafe? The founders of the DeathCafe phenomenon call it a “social franchise.” A Death Cafe is a discussion, usually with desserts, between groups of 6-8 people, with a facilitator present. Confidentiality and respect for differing ideas and beliefs is practiced. Participants introduce themselves and share why they came to the Death Cafe and the discussion often takes off from there. It’s a surprisingly pleasant event. It is a discussion rather than a grief support or counseling session. The objective is 'to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives. (www.deathcafe.com)
What do people talk about? Some of the topics that come up are: What is a good death? What do you want to be remembered for? What kind of funeral, memorial service do you want? What’s your experience with death? What, if anything, frightens you the most? What do you think of the right to die movement? And the like. If death is something you’d like to talk about, mark your calendar for Feb. 3.
Humanist Discussion Group – Tuesday, Feb. 5, 7:00 p.m.
PLEASE NOTE THE CHANGE IN DATE - there will be no meeting on Jan. 15.
Our next Humanist Discussion Group will meet next at Tues. February 3, 2019 in the Yellow room at the Fellowship. The topic is "Why do some people reject scientific evidence, for example, the reason for global warming." All are welcome.
If you are interested in Unitarian Universalism, we hope you’ll visit us to learn more. If attending our services doesn’t fit your life, you might want to investigate the Church of the Larger Fellowship, a virtual congregation of Unitarian Universalists, with more than 3,500 members around the U.S. They hold online services on Sundays at 8 p.m., and on Mondays at 9 a.m. or 1:30 p.m.
You can find them at clfuu.org.
Just a little more than a week to go, EarthKeepers! Here are the logistics for the march:
- To obtain the group rate [$15.25] tickets must be paid for by Sun., September 14th; if you want assistance paying for the trip, contact us prior to 9/14.
- Our train leaves the LIRR Ronkonkoma Station at 8:40 a.m. on Sept. 21st. Ours is the 'head' [most westerly] car of the train, and usually, NYC trains leave on Platform 'A' [north, or ticket-office side of the station]. We will have some coffee & breakfast nosh, so arrive early enough.
- We have 1 boarding pass for the outgoing trip. Our individual return tickets and Metro cards will be distributed on the train. [Yay! We can return whenever we want!]
- At Penn Station, we will go upstairs to the LIRR waiting area. There are clean men's & women's rooms; we will have a bathroom break and reassemble in front of the waiting area prior to continuing to the subway.
- We take the #1 subway train [B'way Local] north to Columbus Circle. Do NOT board until everyone is through the turnstiles and on the platform. This may mean letting a train come and go before we board [I know that is hard!], but we want to stay together, at least until the March begins, no?
- At Columbus Circle, we will go up to the street and walk the 1-2 blocks south to 58th St., then west to meet the 'faith contingent' between 8th & 9th Av., where we will have a Spiritual Aligning before we join the March.
EarthKeepers: Andy Collver, Deborah Gale, Larry Mazza, Rosie Weisner, Dave Tarbell, John Casper, Judith Dreyer, Alexis Grasso, or Deb Little.
Join us for the People's Climate March
Sept. 21st in New York City!
On Sunday, Sept. 21st, our congregation will be joining the People's Climate March in New York City to stand for the future of the planet. We invite members of our local community to join us to travel into NYC to participate in this critical and, we hope, historic March.
We march and speak for our Earth and all the life she will sustain to the 7th generation and beyond. Those who cannot march with us in the city are invited to gather at UUFSB at 10:30 a.m. for a meditative service designed to align the energy of those gathering with the spirit and aim of the March.
See below to read or here to hear the inspirational words of our minister, the Rev. Margie Allen, on why this is one of the most important events of this century.
For more information go to People's Climate March.
To sign up to join the march: http://www.meetup.com/UU-Justice-Web-Metro-NY/events/193519382/
To watch the movie Disruption about the urgent need to halt climate change, go to http://watchdisruption.com/. To see the trailer, click below:
Rev. Margie Allen, Unitarian Universalist Fellowship at Stony Brook
Sunday, September 14, 2014
Well, this is it folks. This is what I have been talking about for four years. We are living into a pristine example of the perfect alignment of three factors that together require of us a clear affirmation or a clear refusal: the call of our faith, a specific urgent justice situation in the world we live in and action for which our congregation is particularly equipped. We practiced this same discernment and response three years ago when a significant number of us recognized the same constellation forming around the question of marriage equality in the state of New York.
Certainly part of the reason we exist as a congregation is to respond to unjust situations when we see them, to leverage our numbers in whatever way is needed. Those situations are not always “out there” on the other side of these walls, I might add. Unjust situations exist inside individuals and families. Unjust situations exist within this community itself. We aspire to the wisdom to notice and the courage to address injustice wherever it arises: to reach out to one of us whose addiction to alcohol is spinning out of control, to protect and advocate for one among us who is physically abused by a spouse, to intervene when our children are struggling to handle a conflict on the playground, to look together for ways we may unconsciously fail to be fully welcoming here to people who do not meet our standard of like-mindedness or education or appearance.
One of our reasons for existence as a people of faith gathering regularly is to notice suffering, to listen in the presence of that suffering for the call of our faith and then to respond—resolutely and courageously—in some way that makes a difference, no matter how inconvenient or challenging that action might seem to us in the planning or the execution. We are not on the hook to make everything right in the world. Much of the time, we get to use our time together to rest from the stress of our lives, to restore our hope and energy, to enjoy one another’s company and conversation, to sing and play. We must turn to our common faith and human companionship regularly in order to grow and learn, in order to equip ourselves as agents of love and justice, in order to remember together, again and again, that we are connected to one another, part of a larger web of being. We gather here on Sunday mornings, and at other times, to practice the art of being ever more faithful and effective conduits for the Spirit of Life, our inexhaustible Source of love and hope.
But right now a critical mass of people in the congregation have come to understand that there is a situation we can together rally to address. Bill McKibben and 350.org, together with other environmental justice organizations, are asking for as many people as possible to come to New York City next Sunday morning to help world leaders gathering at the UN understand that there is massive popular support for taking definitive action right now to stop and reverse the global warming of our planet. This is an action we are positioned well to take. We do not have to go far. We can use public transportation. Most of us do not work on Sundays. Most of us believe ourselves physically capable of enduring the challenges of a long day of walking here and there amid a massive crowd. One among us has agreed to lead a service here for those who come here that Sunday instead, for whatever good reason. We have been smart enough to arrange for discount tickets on the Long Island railroad and generous enough to offer free tickets to those among us who can’t afford the fare. After the service we have arranged an opportunity to make some signs for the march as we watch a very moving, clear and compelling description of the reality of global warming and the response we will be joining. We have organized an action and are ready to take it. We’re going in, whole hog. We are committed to adding our voices to hundreds of thousands of others in an appeal for immediate and unequivocal international response to the accelerating disintegration of the biosphere that supports all life on earth.
If you are still on the fence about joining us or if you are hearing about this for the first time this morning, it is not too late to join us. Today is the deadline for buying LIRR tickets at a group discount. Deb Little or Alexis Grasso will be pleased to add you to our list. We are very close to filling an entire railroad car, nearly a hundred people. We go into the city on one ticket. On board, we’ll each receive our own return ticket and a metro card. You can come home any time you need to. We will march together among at least ten thousand others in the interfaith coalition. You will remember that day for a long time. And maybe that day will, as we look back in the years to come, be seen as the tipping point of the resolve of the human species to avoid self-destruction and the massive extinction of many other sentient beings who are part of the web of life we share.
Unitarian Universalism asks us unambiguously to affirm the worth and dignity of every person, our first principle. Our seventh principle, the collective version of individualistic first, asks us to understand and affirm that human life is deeply interdependent with Earth’s organic, hydraulic, atmospheric and geologic systems and all other forms of life on Earth. The web of life itself is the Source and foundation of the survival of all life. When we do not honor the integrity of the web, we risk not only our own survival, but the survival of the whole web of life.
Our fourth principle asks us to heed the clear declaration of respected scientists and the results of confirmed research that predicts a global environmental cataclysm that will create for our youngest children a planet we would not recognize as ours when they reach their forties. Our fifth principle asks us to uphold the democratic process. I am going to be talking a lot about democracy this year. Let me just say for now that it is an indisputable fact that our executive, legislative and judicial capacity for justice-making is currently negligible. There was a time when we could have said that our right to vote our conscience as American citizens carries power enough to right wrongs even when our government is unresponsive. Not so now. Your vote to end global warming at the current level of destruction has been bought out from under you.
Exxon-Mobil, the world’s largest-ever-in-history corporation and other fantastically rich carbon-venders like it have bought the democratic process. And, further, they are charging you and me untold trillions of dollars for the privilege of wrecking the environment we all share. Their ka-zillion dollars and their story about what a healthy economy looks like has allowed them to legally pass on to society the high cost of their business. They have been able to block efforts to force them to pay for what they call the “externalities” in their business plan. In cahoots with self-interested legislators, they have taken full advantage of every possible tax break, loop hole, special consideration and governmental support. The fossil fuel lobby has deprived you of your voice. They and the corporations they serve have purposefully fed you skewed research that cast doubt on legitimate scientific reports. They hid the truth form you and went to the bank with the profit from their deception.
Your voice is Earth’s voice. Your voice is the one that speaks of behalf of the people who are on the front lines of the tragedy of global warming. Without your voice, your vote, your demand, they are the ones the floods will sweep away. They are the ones whose subsistence farms will dry up and wither away. They are the ones who will be decimated by the diseases warmth-loving insect vectors carry. They are the ones the tsunami will terrorize. They are the ones whose river, their lifeline, will cease running. They are ones who will starve and die of drinking contaminated water. They are the first peoples whose sacred land the pipelines will threaten. They are the ones whose neighborhoods will be decimated and not rebuilt. They are the ones who will pay for the oil baron’s “externalities.” In war they are called “collateral damage.” Our UU faith calls them human, worthy, beloved. Our UU faith calls us to speak for them in whatever way remains to us. Our fifth principle calls us to begin to restore democracy by taking to the streets, by voting with our feet for love and life and right. Earth has no voice and no vote. She has only us.
History tells us that mass action gets the attention that yields results. Bill McKibben says in the film Disruption that I hope you will all stay to watch after the service, that only 1% of the American public ever participated in a demonstration during the Civil Rights Movement. But that 1% was what it took to bring justice rolling down like waters. In 1972 Nixon watched on TV as the massive response to the first Earth Day unfolded. Shortly thereafter he initiated a cascade of legislation that flew in the face of his party’s priorities, among them the Clean Air Act, the Clean Water Act, the Safe Drinking Act, the Endangered Species Act, the Marine Animal Protection Act, the National Environmental Policy Act, the Superfund, the Environmental Education Act. It was people on their feet in the streets that ended the Vietnam War. The New York City Nuclear Disarmament demonstration in 1982, the largest political demonstration in US history at the time, garnered global attention and subsequent definitive action that lifted all our fingers off the red button of mutually assured destruction.
Showing up on the streets shows results. And right now showing up is virtually our only choice. A rose in a history book doesn’t smell nearly as lovely as a rose in a garden and a rabbit feels nowhere near as soft. I want real roses for our children’s children. I will march for babies and for rabbits and for roses. We find ourselves at a tipping point in global grasp of the realities of our situation.
Tip towards justice.
This Climate Change thing is not about the destruction of our planet. It is about the destruction of the biosphere: the miraculous, intricate, resilient and fragile system that allows life on the planet to exist. The earth will survive, but not the Earth that can support life. A guy in the film Disruption describes the narrowness of zone within which life is possible. Two kilometers below us, the earth is too hot for life; two kilometers above us, the air is too thin to breathe. Of course, the balance is more complicated, more intricate, more tenuous and more resilient than this. More than two degrees of warming will engage a set of feedback loops, some of which scientists understand and can predict, some of which lie in the mysteries between what we know so far. Certain combinations could easily create a devastating cascade of events that suddenly accelerates completely out of our control and well beyond our capacity to respond.
Here are some examples of feedback loops that are described in the film. The Arctic icecap which normally reflects sun away from Earth and keeps us cool is already melting at 1 degree of warming. As the mirroring surface shrinks, cooling capacity diminishes and warming increases and mirroring surface shrinks. And so on, a loop of continuously magnified destruction. As the arctic warms and the tundra thaws, the methane underneath--a form of carbon fifty times more toxic than carbon dioxide--will begin to be released into the atmosphere, exponentially adding to the greenhouse effect and warming more tundra and releasing more methane. A loop of continuously magnified destruction. Carbon dioxide is absorbed by our oceans, acidifying the water. Tiny plankton, which constitute the lowest rung on the ocean food chain, cannot tolerate more than a certain level of acidification. If they die, every bit of sea life will die with them. The whole interconnected web of life below the waves we see will disintegrate and that massive disruption will have devastating repercussions for human beings and other beings that depend on the sea for food and income. A loop of continuously magnified destruction.
We are approaching a red line in terms of carbon entering our atmosphere. We passed 350 parts per million of Co2 in the atmosphere long ago. We just recently passed 400 parts per million. Dr. Gavin Schmidt, climatologist and climate modeler at NASA's Goddard Institute for Space Studies, reacted by saying “We are a society that has inadvertently chosen the double-black diamond run without having learned to ski first. It will be a bumpy ride. [“NASA scientists react to 400 ppm carbon milestone” http://climate.nasa.gov/400ppmquotes/]. Out of a trillion more tons of carbon potentially headed for release, we are approaching 600 million. We’ll get there within thirty years if we do nothing and are lucky. We’re now approaching 2 degrees Celsius of warming and events unfolding now will magnify the warming process as they interact. Already we live on a radically altered planet. There is an end point. Life as we know it cannot survive an average increase of 6 degrees.
Experts are telling us that a 100% renewable economy is now truly possible. We do not have the 40 to 60 years we have required in the past to make transitions in energy sources. We have to move on that immediately. This past summer UUFSB made a small contribution to that movement. Our solar panels are making a difference not just for us, but for the world. Every little bit helps, but we need a whole lot of little bits. Most importantly, we need to make the hard turn to carbon sobriety. Our society—particularly ours, for we Americans, a tiny percentage of the world’s population contribute 25% of the carbon load in our atmosphere—our society is hooked on oil. And we have to get off it. Our addiction, as all addictions tend to do, is threatening to take everyone else down with us while wealth and personal security accrue to our Big Oil “dealers.”
Watching the plans unfold for the People’s Climate March next Sunday has given me real hope. Even as I have been reading humankind’s most awful, frightening news, I have been breathing in the words and images coming out of the organizing process. As you watch the film, you will see the intense engagement of volunteers and leaders, the message of solidarity in the upraised fists, the depth of the planning room conversations, the wonderful variety of colors and backgrounds from which people came, the inclusive, sensitive, mindful regard for minority groups whose members suffer the most in the aftermath of disaster. You see in their faces, in their determination, in their persistence, the passion that kept them moving full tilt through their tight time-line. April to September. That is all the time they had to mount this massive March.
So many scientists and activists have given their lives to tracking this issue, again and again bringing the increasing evidence for global warming to our attention, writing books and articles, giving interviews, organizing people and events. Bill McKibben has been on this since 1989, taking up the line left slack in the mid eighteenth and early nineteenth centuries when scientists first began to notice the relationship between carbon emissions and increasing average temperatures. I am sure I don’t know the half of it. But I do know this. You will see what I saw—in the film, in the reading you also will do, in your companions on the march, in the strains of the cello, in the worship we will share at our staging post, in the words of those who have called us together in the city. You will see what noble company you keep. You will see faith in action, religious and non-religious. But faith. You will see it. Here’s how the contingents are lining up and the message each contingent brings to the array. You can see this map on the People’s Climate March webpage, www.peoplesclimate.org. Our cadre is the fifth of six to enter the March.
•Frontlines of Crisis—Forefront of Change. The people first and most impacted are leading the change: indigenous, environmental justice and other frontline communities.
•We Can Build the Future. Every generation’s future is at stake. We can build a better one: Labor, Families, Students, Elders and More.
•We Have Solutions. A just transition is possible: Renewable Energy, Food and Water Justice, Environmental Organizations and More.
•We Know Who is Responsible. Let’s call out those who are holding back progress: Anti-Corporate Campaigns, Peace and Justice and More.
•The Debate is Over. The facts are in. Taking action is a moral necessity: Scientists, Interfaith and More. [This is us. How beautiful is that? Scientists and people of faith. Together. Yay.]
•To Change Everything, We Need Everyone. Here comes everybody: LGBTQ, New York City Buroughs, Neighborhoods, Cities, States, Countries and More.
Come ride, stand, sing, and march with us. Our Mother Earth has a fever. We must take care of her. For our own sake and for our children, we can reanimate our democracy and use it to restore health and wholeness to the biosphere upon which all life depends.
As you prepare for your action, in whatever form it might take, remember the advice the poet Gary Snyder gives in his poem “For the Children”:
The rising hills, the slopes,
lie before us.
the steep climb
of everything, going up,
up, as we all
In the next century
or the one beyond that,
are valleys, pastures,
we can meet there in peace
if we make it.
To climb these coming crests
one word to you,
to you and your children:
learn the flowers
learn the flowers
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This Saturday - February 23 - 6:30 p.m. - 10:30 p.m.
The UUFSB Goods & Services Auction, which had to be cancelled due to inclement weather, has been rescheduled. Mark your calendars... we hope you can all make it!
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Thank you! The Auction Committee
Religious Educator – Part-time
Unitarian Universalist Congregation of the South Fork
977 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton, NY 11932
We are looking for a dynamic individual to provide a foundation for our children’s Religious Education program. This person will inspire and engage children in the classroom and outside in nature as they explore a Unitarian Universalist curriculum. On occasion the children’s class will join with the adults for multigenerational experiences that may be facilitated in part by the Religious Educator. The position will report to the Minister, Alison Cornish, and the two Religious Education Co-Chairs. A background in Unitarian Universalism is a plus, but at a minimum the successful candidate will have an affinity with UU values. We will need strong references, a history of successful work with children, and an ability to communicate with the minister, volunteers, and RE Co-chairs in a timely manner. As a small congregation the UUCSF would like to welcome new children into our religious education program with the help of the Religious Educator. This position will be filled from outside the congregation per the Board’s direction.
DESCRIPTION OF DUTIES:
- Teach every Sunday with the exception of intergenerational worship services which are approximately once a month.
- Prepare lesson plan and arrange materials prior to class time.
- Recruit one volunteer from the congregation to help each Sunday.
- Communicate with parents about their children and the program.
- Write a brief article about Religious Exploration each month for the newsletter.
- Work with the Minister, and RE Co-chairs to select, implement and evaluate the curriculum.
- Communicate regularly with the Religious Exploration Chairs.
- Help create a children’s holiday program, typically, with a short intergenerational drama
Salary: $100/week which is based on 2 hours Sunday mornings and 2 hours of prep time.
Contact Sue Penny at 631-725-6435.
Membership Coordinator, All Souls Unitarian Church, New York
About All Souls: All Souls Unitarian Church, established in 1819, is a self-governing community of approximately 1500 people who come together to worship, serve the community, and create an enriching, non-dogmatic religious environment. All Souls is proud of its many social outreach programs. These include feeding the hungry at the Monday Night Hospitality Program and the Friday Lunch Program, sponsoring Girl Scout and Navigator troops, and others. All Souls is an accessible congregation dedicated to providing an environment in which all people feel welcome regardless of race, sexual orientation or physical ability.
Additional information about All Souls: Please visit us at www.allsoulsnyc.org to learn more.
Purpose: The All Souls Membership Coordinator will be responsible for creating a vibrant, dedicated membership that feels welcome and included in the church and its activities. This is a Sunday through Thursday position. Reports to the Executive Director.
- Serves as a welcoming presence and models and encourages a culture of welcoming among the church membership;
- Participates in the life of the church by attending church and coffee hour on Sundays; coordinates and attends membership ceremonies and new member receptions; participates in welcome workshops for visitors exploring membership; welcomes and talks to visitors and members; attends other events on an as needed basis;
- Reaches out to visitors and members, acts as a face of the church and an early friend to visitors and new members;
- Identify and connect with visitors who are interested in learning about membership and plan Welcome Workshops and meetings with the minister and executive director for them;
- Discerns the needs and talents of individual members to guide them toward appropriate church activities; helps members recognize their passions, talents, and leadership qualities to encourage them to develop their volunteerism within the church;
- Works with church staff, committees, and social groups to identify, expand, and promote opportunities and programs for member involvement; maintains lists of committee and group leaders, maintains board and board committee lists;
- Maintains and updates church database to record information on members’ needs, talents, gifts and interests; develops process to track newcomers and workshop attendees;
- Writes periodically for monthly bulletin and website to promote activities, recognize volunteers, encourage culture of welcoming, and increase visibility of members;
- Develops and expands programs that welcome members and increase connections with the church community;
- Works with Hospitality Council on hospitality practices and initiatives, including developing and implementing a tracking system to evaluate path to membership and how well new members become integrated within the church community;
- Sustains and grows mentoring program to help new members get to know experienced members;
- Implements and coordinates regular recognition of volunteers;
- Provides support to Annual Giving campaign;
- Works with ministers and provides administrative support to them on issues relating to pastoral and program needs;
- Provides administrative support to Executive Director;
- Works with Communications Director to help create materials for pamphlet racks, bulletin boards, Welcome Table, and website;
- Meets regularly with Executive Director; meets with ministers as needed, and attends staff meetings.
Qualifications and Required Proficiencies:
- Bachelor’s degree
- Experience in volunteer management, particularly experience working within or volunteering in a church community, preferred
- Familiarity with Unitarian Universalism preferred
- Excellent interpersonal skills including: approachability and personal warmth, ability to nurture volunteers, tact and good judgment, ability to listen compassionately;
- Strong written and verbal communication skills, including public speaking skills
- Highly organized
- Competency with computer programs: MS Office, membership database software (Raisers’ Edge); Excel, Adobe.
- Office skills: mass mailings, email lists, proofreading;
- Must be able to maintain a high level of confidentiality.
How to Apply: Interested applicants should submit thoughtful cover letter stating reasons for interest in position and qualifications, as well as resume to:
Subject line: Membership Coordinator
All Souls is committed to inclusive hiring and dedicated to diversity in our work and staff. We strongly encourage candidates from all groups and communities to apply.
Only applicants selected for interview will be notified.
No phone calls, please.